My writing rituals

I would like to say that I have a ritual that is ideal for writing the best scenes. It would make the creative juices flow, is great for busy schedules, and allows for flexibility. I would really like to say all of that, but it would be a lie. My writing changes with me, my life, my schedule, my location. Some days I can put aside the world and write. Other days I stare at my closed notebook in frustration.

Writing is an expression and a passion. We write when we are inspired and motivated. We mourn when the spirit of procrastination attacks. There is no set method for great writing. I have read about (and attempted) various author methods of quality writing. Here is what I have learned:

1. I am NOT a 4 am writer. It lasted two days and accumulated a total of three paragraphs.
2. I can NOT write at the same time every day- or even every day! There are days where life has to be prioritized and that is okay.
3. I am NOT okay to write if I am NOT OKAY- mental health is a thing. It really does impact all parts of life- including creativity. Find joy and rest and you will find inspiration to write.
4. I do NOT write well with a timer. I tend to focus on how much I am NOT getting written instead of just writing. It becomes stressful and when I am stressed the inspiration gets blocked.
5. I can NOT compare myself to other writers. I will write when I write and I will not apologize or feel like a failure if that timeline doesn’t match up with others.

I found that I can write when I am completely relaxed, in an inspiring setting, and I have no expectations on my time. This is very rare, but when it happens, the writing pours out and the story unfolds. So, my suggestion to you. Find what works for you. Test your writing. Do you work best with music, talking, or silence? Do you prefer, pen and paper, laptop, tape recorder, or typewriter? Do you write in the morning, afternoon, or by moonlight? Do you write at home, in a cabin, by the lake, or on a beach? Enjoy what works when it works and don’t be upset if something changes. Life doesn’t stand still, it constantly changes, and so will your writing.